I realize this sounds crazy talking all about “meant to be” and “supposed to be” but I really feel like I’m being led a certain way. Not like a cow being led by the nose but as if I’m being shown a way to go. I still feel kind of crazy with this. One evening when the kids were asleep, I’d finally allowed myself some pain meds, and Mike and I were relaxing in the living room. I just blurted this all out. I cried while I told him. Not because I’m sad but I think because this is all happening to me at a very emotional and intuitive level. I actually didn’t tell Mike the whole quit my job part. I started with the lighter “I’m thinking of cutting my hours back” version. My scientific logical husband could have said so many things. What he did was listen nod his head and then said, “you know, you could volunteer at B’s school next year and then maybe write a book”. Seriously! Seriously!
It was like the clouds parted and the sun came shinning down on me when he said that. I asked him if he felt resentful at all about me “finding myself” while he works 12 hour plus days at Intel. But he said he pretty much likes what he does and likes his life. When I think about it he also had time to do this, to figure out what he liked earlier in his life. So much of my twenties were about survival. My thirties were about learning balance, about being healthy and creating family. What if this right now is my time?